Some Tuesday Updates

I have a mix of updates so here's a list.

1. Yep, watched the eclipse with glasses saved from the 2017 eclipse. That's a win in planning for the future. We were at about 85% totality.

The sun getting smaller

2. Garden day. Planted a lot, started hardening grow room plants and sprinkled wildflower seeds. Grow well little plants. I also picked greens and carrots for a nice sized salad. Next year I'm planted a big bunch of greens.

Hardening my grow room might take a bit longer because it's going to be rainy and cloudy the next few days. It needs exposure to sunshine too. 

3. Books.

About halfway -- it's good.

Nonfiction. Very interesting,
scary, heartbreaking. And
a little too long.

4. Coaching. Got some good coaching on forgiveness. Forgiveness doesn't necessarily mean things go back to the way they were -- I can forgive and still have boundaries. I'm not ready to open a door to a conversation with my mom at this juncture. I need to process a lot of feelings first. 

5. I'm also working on friendship stuff. I have expectations for some friends that aren't serving our friendship. It's a thin line between expectations and deciding what I think defines a friendship (i.e. a friend is different than a stranger you meet). There are always expectations in a relationship, but some can go too far. I'm trying to figure out how I define all of it. What to keep, what to let go.

I'm leaving it here. My dogs are up and bugging for some reason -- I need to get to them before they wake up my hubby. Lunch with my aunties today. Later gators.